This Couple’s Therapy 101 back to basics book is humoristic enough to lift you out of the Valley of Gloom and get you to stop yelling at your loved one long enough to reflect on all the nice things they do that you appreciate and have likely forgotten about gradually over the past 20years (or 2 days). Harville makes the reconciliation process simple by employing the maximum amount of Star Trek references, the geekiest cartoon egghead illustrations, and keeping religious doctrine out of the picture. There’s something very heartwarming about reading that opposites really do attract, childhood issues do matter, and it’s possible to love someone into being who hasn’t really blossomed yet but is destined to with your mature watering. The grass is green wherever you water it. Water your relationship today by reading this book and stop fighting about who needs to read it first. You’re welcome.

written by Ellen A